I Didn’t Make Him Talk About His Feelings

Posted on: September 12th, 2013 By: onlinedating Under: Online dating

I have been married for nearly 15 years. I am always thankful for my husband, but I do miss how we used to be with one another. We have had three kids since we were married, and I know that we are both usually tired by the end of the night. I still wanted to get that passion back in our lives though. When my best friend sent me an email with a subject line that only said ‘make him desire you‘, I was not sure what she was up to. It did not take me long to find out though.

She was in a similar position, though she had been married a few more years than I have been. Her marriage, while good, was on the stale side too, and she told me that she had downloaded a book that was loaded with tips and suggestions on how to bring the passion back into their relationship. I was a bit hesitant at first, because I wasn’t even sure I had the energy. I started thinking back to the times when we were dating though, and I realized that I missed those times even more than I had thought.

I downloaded the book too, and I read through it one afternoon. When my husband came home that night from work, the kids were at my sister’s house. We had a romantic dinner, and I told him what I had been up to that day. I had to laugh when he looked a bit worried at first. I think he thought I was going to make him talk about his feelings or something. I had read though that men show their feelings better than they talk about them, and I was prepared to try things his way. We both learned a lot about each other that night, and our relationship has never been better!